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Facebook And Its Often Misunderstood Protocol

Unquestionably, one of the most visited websites online these days is Facebook. The creator of the social networking site is now a very rich man because of the website, despite the fact that it’s just a classier version of Myspace and uses almost zero original ideas, and millions of people across the globe use the site on a daily basis. Typically the users are younger people, who often times put Senior Pictures up on the site which may or may not be from a Cincinnati Photography Studio and are smart about internet use, but recently there has been a trend of middle aged and older people getting on the site. What some users fail to understand is that there is an etiquette associated with Facebook which is very important so as not to embarrass one’s self or friends.

One tacit rule of Facebook is that, if you’re a guy anyway, you don’t use the poke feature on friends of the same gender. Facebook poking is the bizarre “I’m too shy to actually come up and talk to you like a normal person” way of flirting, so it’s best to understand that before using the feature. Poking a platonic friend of the same gender can in fact lead to some very confusing and troubling conversations later on in the friendship and should be avoided at all costs. In fact, even in regards to the opposite sex this feature should be used very sparingly, because it’s hard to imagine lots of girls sit around and think that it’s really endearing and attractive that somebody “poked” them, resulting in an annoying, small advertisement saying who the poke is from.

Another Facebook manners issue is that of the friend request. Friendship on Facebook, unfortunately unlike in real life, is determined by essentially a formally written request which the receiver may decline or accept. As a general rule, most people will accept friend requests from any kind of person they know, leading to many people having friend’s lists that include people they actually loathe. Nothing is more annoying, however, than logging on to the site and seeing a new friend request and getting excited about the prospect of a new completely superficial half friend person, only to find out that the request is from a person who has previously been rejected from friendship. The rule here is to not friend request a person more than once, because it’s extremely annoying and a huge letdown.

Finally, a last rule of Facebook etiquette is to not gawk at other people’s pictures too much, no matter how good looking or freakishly bad and funny looking they may be. The reason for this is that on the off chance that it’s discovered, you look like a stalker and that’s never in any way a good thing.

Facebook will most likely only continue to grow in the next few years and make creator Mark Zuckerberg more money because of the numerous options and interesting tools on the always growing, and always changing social networking site.

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